Marriage

    There is a line, marriage is happening between two families not two people. Does it really have any meaning? 

    Marriage is a sacred bonding between two people. It is a ceremony where two people gather their hands, put their soul together and happily share their life to each other. If they don't feel any similarity between them, if they can't understand each other, do they really maintain their marriage? When someone share their feelings, their likes-dislikes, their compatibility to other one, then he/she can thought to spend his/her own life with other one. Here family only acts like a guest, who attends any function to give enjoyment to themselves.

    Different religions have different customs of marriage. Every people celebrate this sacred bonding ceremony in their own ways. According to their financial capability every people organize a get together with their families and friends. Some people do destination wedding and some people do only paper work to abide law. In an Indian wedding ceremony both the families of bride and groom invite a lots of people and organize a grand party with varieties of food, music etc. Indians have been celebrating their marriage ceremony for 3to 5 days. All the family members and family friends come together and they do dancing singing playing and other lots of fun activity to memorize this auspicious day. Many people’s life are depending on this ceremony like decorators, caterers, and priest because their financial condition in depending on these ceremonies. So a marriage ceremony is not only socially it is also financially affected the society.

    Sometime people have to sacrifice their loves for the family. Just because family denies their choices, so he/she has to forget his/her love and has to participate in family's choice. Then what will be the result? After some year, they get a divorce certificate as a gift.

    Modern people should change their mind. Then we can create a better society.